July-August 2024 - Friends and Blessings
Later this month I will be celebrating my 65th birthday. Yes, my tongue is sticking out to those who are making comments about thinking I was older or younger than that J. For years, I have looked forward to checking my Facebook page to see the birthday greetings that come in. They come from hundreds of friends that I’ve accumulated across the entirety of my life. It is one of the wonderful things about the connectivity of Facebook. Friends that would have been lost to me long ago are as close as my computer.
Some are family and school friends I’ve known forever. Some I’ve met throughout my ministry as a pastor, some are ones I’ve met through Scouting, and others, well, sometimes I have to think about how I met them. As I read each note, I reflect on how we met, how long I’ve known them, what experiences we’ve shared, etc. Several years ago, I came to realize that friends come in categories: Friends for a reason, Friends for a season, and Friends for a lifetime.
Some friends entered my life for a reason. They were there for a short time centered around an event or a project. When the event or project was finished, we went our separate ways. Some friends entered my life for a season. It was more than just an event or a project. Our friendship was active for a few years. I think of church members in congregations I have served but chose not to stay in touch with me. I think of Scout Leaders that I worked with actively for several years, but now our paths have taken us to other communities.
Then there are friends for a lifetime. It isn’t that we talk to each other all the time. It isn’t that we spend time together regularly. But these are more than mere acquaintances. We stay aware of each other. We hold one another up in our prayers. We celebrate each other’s life, even if it is at a distance. Those friendships are precious jewels. They are life-long blessings from God.
That’s what the church is called to do. We are to stay aware of each other. We are to hold one another up in our prayers. We are to celebrate each other’s life. We are blessed so that we may be a blessing to others.
God does not intend us to be solo acts! We are called to be in community, to love, to laugh, to cry, to share life together! Don’t go it alone! Come discover the blessings of friends at church!
Blessings!
Alan